The Attitude of a Winner

The Attitude of a Winner is very unique. They always expect to win in any given situation. They embrace the challenge and stand expecting to win with all of their belief system, courage, and determination. They never plan a path of retreat just in case they don't win.

People with the Winner Attitude do not plan on cancelling their gym membership. When they say they will get into shape, they find every way to get to their desired goal.

They expect to come out of any situation as a winner, and they never let go of this.

Yeah, but...
If it's that simple why doesn't everybody expect to win? What if you end up losing anyway after you expected to win?

First, let go of those questions. Make a decision this very moment. Expect to win at anything that comes your way. When you get prepared for a challenge. Always remember, if you expect to lose, then you automatically will lose.

Being a winner at anything starts with a winning mindset, and the winning mindset doesn't expect to be validated. On the flip side, the validation will come as a result of you making a decision. A decision that you're going to win.

Expecting to win is an ingredient that makes everything possible. Athletes are a great example of winners who expect to win. Muhamed Ali believed he was the greatest before he became the greatest. LeBron James believes he can be the greatest basketball player who ever lived. Always remember, everything in our external world begins in our internal world.

Write down a goal or desire that you have, that requires you to put a lot of effort into it. What is your expected outcome? Do you even believe you can achieve it? Just expect to win and to get to your outcome. Imagine how it will feel when that vision is fulfilled and everyone who ever doubted you is standing in awe and envy.

Imagine how happy you and the people who have faith in you are going to feel when you achieve your goal. Imaging these images until you can feel them throughout your entire body. This is knowing you will win. Perhaps most importantly believing that you will win.

The Standards of a Winner 
Anthony Robbins, Life Coach, says that people who have high standards also have high rewards. Now it is easy to determine why people have low rewards.

What causes a person to have low standards? Everyone wants to be happy, healthy, and rich and to have meaningful relationships.

People do not have the type of life they want because they lower their standards.

The problem isn't that people give up right when they're met with failures or discouragement. The real problem is that so many people lower their standards and end up achieving their low goals that won't challenge them

Look at all of the areas of your life and ask yourself if can be better.

There are only these reasons: you're working toward your goal, or you've lowered your standards and settled for what you already have. You didn't give up on it. You just lowered the bar and settled with anything that you were able to achieve.

Very few people are completely failing when it comes to having relationships in their life, but many people still don't have the types of relationships they want. Again, this is because their standards aren't pushing them to have anything better.

These same principle can be applied to any area of your life. Most your life are a representation of the standards you've set for yourself. Take a look at these areas of your life that have not met your expectations and ask the following questions:

Can I become more? Can it be done more efficiently? How can this be done better?

Now, that higher standard might have been what caused you to pick up this book... and that's good. But it's also important that you have a specific standard as to what you want, that you expect to have it, and that you maintain that standard at all times.

No matter what.

Sure, you might need to adjust your plan or timeline along the way (more on this later). But no matter how many adjustments you make in your plan or in your timeline, you must never let go of the original standards upon which you established your expectations to win.

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