Want to Stop Giving Your Power Away to Others?

Do you know that giving away one's power means feeling like an indentured slave to the whims, needs and expectations of others? Do you know this leaves one feeling like they do not have full ownership of or control over the direction of their life? Do you know that such individuals were programmed, from a very early age, to believe they have no right to a free, fulfilling and self directed life and that their sole purpose in being here was to be a "slave servant" to others? Do you know that it is the programming, and not the individuals around them that renders them slaves? Finally, do you know that it is now possible to completely erase all the old emotional baggage responsible for this stifling programming and to be set free once and for all? Want to learn more?

So, what form does that programming take, you ask?

Well here are some examples that may be familiar to you:

1. The need to be liked.
2. The need to be accepted.
3. The need to belong.
4. The need to be validated.
5. The need to be loved.
6. The fear of being alone.
7. The need to be taken care of.
8. The need to be comforted or soothed.
9. The need to be rescued.

And so on.

Now I realize that some of you may immediately say, well aren't those normal human experiences?

I would reply, they are indeed common but do they really enhance the quality of one's life and their sense of empowerment and emotional independence? Again, I would reply a definite "no" to the latter.

You see, those programmed needs and fears are actually only present in individuals who feel emotionally vulnerable, weak, lacking in self confidence, self esteem, self worth, the awareness that they have within everything they need to feel whole, complete, capable, competent, strong, confident, resilient, mature, valid, lovable, and so on.

All of the above characteristics are actually sourced from what I have called one's Life Force Energy (or energy of life) or LFE. LFE is the source of all of one's positive resources, the core of the true self and the energy that, when fully integrated with the mind/body yields the (uncommon) experience of being truly alive.

Uncommon, you ask? Yes!
The reason it is uncommon is because the majority of individuals on the planet are walking around in an LFE "deficient" state. In other words they are only partly occupying their mind/body or said differently in a "dying" state.

You see what many refer to as aging (i.e. dying) is actually the process in which one's LFE is progressively leaving or being drained from the mind/body. You know that because when one is actually dead there is no LFE left in their mind/body.

You see, and you can feel how true this is when I say it, it is not natural or desirable to have any of one's LFE drained from the mind/body i.e. no one likes dying, if they are truly honest with themselves.

The dying process, in my view, begins the moment an individual, often in early childhood, experiences some form of emotional trauma that fails to allow the true expression or existence of that individual. Examples include things like abandonment, abuse, neglect, humiliation, bullying, and so on. All such events are disrespectful of that individual and effectively against life itself.

Each such event behaves like a "shock" to the individual and incrementally "knocks" part (and sometimes all) of their LFE out of their mind/body. This leaves them depleted, drained and deficient in those necessary life supporting resources I mentioned earlier thus rendering them feeling empty, needy, weak, vulnerable, dependent and hence easily exploitable.

Now before you despair let me add that there now is a way out of this dilemma. It turns out that a new process discovered recently which has the capacity to permanently erase/delete old emotional baggage in the form of negative memories, beliefs, behaviors, needs, etc. can simultaneously and spontaneously cause one's LFE to return to and permanently reintegrate with the mind/body. This helps to re-establish a feeling of wholeness, completeness, centeredness, resilience, strength, self confidence, emotional independence, self worth, self respect, and most importantly the freedom to live one's life in a fulfilling and self directed way.

This is how one takes their power back once and for all!

So are you inspired to learn more about or experience this kind of personal freedom and empowerment?

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